1. Give up your need to always be right. Stop always having to be right even at the risk of ending a great relationship or causing a great deal of stress and pain for yourself and for others. It's not worth it. When you feel the need to jump into a fight over who is right ask yourself. Would i rather be right or kind, is your ego that big that you have to be right?
2. Give up your need for control. Give up your need to always be in control of everything that happens to you or around you.
3. Give up on blame. Give up on your need to blame others for what you have or don't have, for what you feel or don't feel. start taking responsibility for you own life.
4. Give up on your limiting beliefs about what you can or cannot do, about what is possible or impossible. Don't allow your limiting beliefs to keep you stuck in the wrong place.
5. Give up on complaining. Give up your constant need to complain about things, people,situations or events that make you unhappy sad and depressed. Nobody can make you unhappy, no situation can make you sad or miserable unless you allow it. Its not the situation that triggers those feelings in you but how you choose to look at it.
6.Give up your need to impress others. Stop trying so hard to be something that your not just to make people like you. It doesn't work. The moment you stop trying so hard to be something your not the moment you accept and embrace the real you, you will find people will be drawn to you.
7. Give up your resistance to change. Change is good. Change will help you make improvements in yourself, your life and those around you. Follow your bliss and embrace change don't resist it
8. Give up on your fears. Fear is just an illusion it doesn't exist, you created it. It's all in your mind. Correct the inside and the outside will fall into place.
9. Give up on your excuses. We tend to limit ourselves because of the excuses we use. Instead of growing and working on improving ourselves and our lives we get stuck lying to ourselves and using excuses most of which are not even real.
10. Give up on living your life to other people's expectations. Don't live your life according to what your parents, friends your enemies the government or the media thinks you should. Don't ignore your inner voice, your inner calling. Live your life the way it makes you feel happy. The only expectations you need to live up to are your Masters.
11. Give up the past. I know this is hard but you can never move forward by letting the past control your present and your future. Be present in everything you do and enjoy life. As they say life is a journey not a destination. Have a vision for the future but always be present in the now.
12. Give up attachments I know this is a hard concept, it was for me too, to leave everything behind to move to my Master. It is hard but it is not impossible. I'm not saying to give up your love for these things because love and attachment have nothing to do with one another, attachment comes from a place of fear, while love is pure, kind and self less, where love is there can not be fear, and because of that fear and love can not coexist.
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